If you are attracted to a girl and want her to notice you and go out with you, all you need to do is impress her. Impressing a girl is not that difficult. You just have to be caring and gentle. You need to show her that you care for her and that she is a special person and you like being with her. Following are 8 tips that will help you impress a girl.
1. Be a gentleman and take care of her needs without prompting. Open doors, offer your coat when she's cold, etc. Just show that you care and you are there for her.
2. Be strong, yet not abrasive. Women don't react well to a spineless jellyfish that won't stand up for himself, but be careful not to cross the fine line between confidence and overconfidence.
3. Express and ask about her feelings. A woman appreciates a man who is willing to talk about his feelings and is sincerely interested in hers.
4. If you're consuming alcohol, keep it social and minimal. Women don't like to be around drunk men who keep on bragging about themselves.
5. Exhibit confidence, not jealousy. The reality that she'll stay in contact with friends and acquaintances she had before she met you shouldn't threaten you. You should be open to meet her friends and get to know them.
6. Be accountable for your words and actions. Be a man of your word and let your actions show intentions and character.
7. Realize that relationships can't be bought. Don't ever measure relationship with money. Respect your relationship more than anything in the world. Keep things simple. While it's nice to be spoiled, little things are often much more appreciated and sincere. Buy her a card, not a car,
8. Treat her with the same courtesy, respect and enthusiasm in front of your friends, family and colleagues as you do in private.
How to make women fall in love !
There are men who have such winning personalities, such conquering charm, that they can practically seduce a "blind date" over the phone. The key to winning the heart of a woman is to show her that she is special and mean the world to you. You have to be caring, loving, sensitive, strong, charming and witty. However, this doesn't mean you can equal their charm overnight merely by reading about it. You will have to find your own ways, develop your own brand of charm, and utilizing these principles in a manner which is both polished, and convincing for you. There has to be the genuineness in your voice, the warmth in your touch and the passion in your eyes to set her heart beating for you.
How to get her Phone number !
Let's be honest, approaching women isn't easy. It can be awkward, embarrassing, and downright difficult. But, like most things in life, if you know what you are doing it's easier and with a little practice you can get good at it. To get her number you need to follow a procedure that will give you 100% results. Learn three simple steps that will help you get her number in no time.
When approaching women you should concentrate on three things:
setting her at ease
impressing her
getting her number
Setting her at ease
Why is this important? Women get approached more than you think by weirdo's and perverts. For this reason, women automatically put up their defenses when a guy approaches them. Thus you have to work towards dropping their defenses. For that you need to be yourself, be friendly, smile, and keep the mood light.
Don't act as if you are there to pick her up. Just carry on a conversation, chat, make jokes, don't be afraid to disagree with her, tease her. Do anything that will make her feel comfortable with you. Treat her like you would anybody else and she will notice and drop her barriers.
Impressing her
In order to get her number you definitely have to impress her and make her feel comfortable with you. Because when you ask for her number she will think "Do I really want this guy calling my house?" Basically, she decides how much she likes you. The guys that don't impress her get rejected and the one's she is interested in get the number. So to impress her you need to be confident, gentle and caring. Talk to her about herself. Keep the conversation focused on her as much as possible. Letting her take control of the conversation ensures she won't get bored, let's you learn more about her, and keeps you from saying something stupid. Do NOT make the mistake of talking about yourself in an effort to increase her interest. It does NOT work that way. Also, don't drag the conversation out any longer than necessary.
Finally :: Getting the number
Finally the time will come to leave. Before that you need to get her number. So be confident and just ask for it. If you have played your cards right, the girl might give you her number without you asking for it. But don't wait for that. Just ask her, "Can I get your phone number?" Don't chicken out. If you think this is too direct then you can give her a reason to give you her number. For example, instead of saying, "Can I get your number?" say, "Can I get your number so that we can do something this weekend?" or, "I'd like to get in touch with you again, can I get your number?" This will improve your chances IF you managed to impress her.
In the end, remember that if you don't get her number, it is not the end of the world. Don't be frustrated because you approached 5 girls and none of them gave you their number. You will succeed someday. Just be optimistic.
7 ways to approach Women !
Approaching women is not that tough as you think. You just need confidence and should know to use the right words. Here are a few things you should know before approaching the girl you just met and you are attracted to.
1. The first most important thing is to take it easy. If you get all jittery and scared and think that if you don't get this girl, it is going to be the end of your life, then you will never really get to know her. So be cool and don't overstep your bounds. If you succeed, its great and if not then move on. Don't care about the outcome so much that it will make you nervous and you will spoil every chance that you ever had.
2. Be confident. People show confidence (or lack of it) in a thousand small ways; your posture, the way you talk, a lack of waiver in your voice, eye contact, body position, placement of the hands, etc., etc. All of these are critical and create an impression. Your impression should always be one of confidence.
3. Smile. This is the best part. Your smile can mean a lot. Smiles can easily look like nervousness. Therefore you need to know how good your smile is. You should practice this in front of the mirror until you feel comfortable with it and until it looks natural.
4. Take the conversation somewhere. Pickup lines are no good and will take you nowhere. Your conversation should be intelligent and meaningful. That doesn't mean that you start discussing politics or football with her. You're trying to get to know the woman in the quickest, most direct way possible. Thus, get her talking about herself! Use this as a discovery of both who she is, and what you need to do to move the conversation on.
5. Listen to her. This is an important part of the conversation. Just don't keep talking on and on. You need to listen to what she says and focus on her. Look into her eyes.
6. Close. You have to ask for what you want. Don't wait for her to do the thing for you. Far too many men expect the woman to close for them; waiting for her to give you her number. Instead, you need to be the one to ask for it. Then, when you do, be direct, calm, confident, and don't ask her - tell her. Say something like, "Here, write your home phone number down on this paper and I'll call you sometime to continue this conversation."
7. Leave! You always want to be the one to end the onversation. Don't over-stay your welcome. Close, and make your exit.
Art of Proposing your girlfriend !
Proposing to you girl friend is the most important thing in a man's life. This is a question that brings immense joy and excitement in your life. This moment is cherished all your life and therefore this moment has to be special. Now before you get down on one knee, read these dos and don'ts of proposing.
DO's:
Do Talk about Marriage Before you propose, talk about the possibility of getting married. Make sure it's something that you both want.
Do make it a Surprise Even though you have discussed marriage, the proposal itself should still be a surprise. Find a moment and a way that is special and she should not be expecting it. Remember it should be a surprise.
Do Find the Right Engagement Ring Since wearing an engagement ring is a lifetime commitment, make sure it's the right style. If you think its difficult choosing the right ring yourself, you can also ask her mother or best friend to help choose the ring.
Do Take Elders Blessings It is always better to take the consent of both the parents. Therefore before you pop the question, make sure that you have spoken to her and your parents about it.
Do Pick a Personal Spot Think about your favorite romantic places -- choose a romantic spot to pop the question. Just make sure that it is a special spot and this is your personal moment.
Do Be Creative Incorporate your personality, favorite things, foods etc. into the proposal. Make it memorable and something to cherish the rest of your lives.
Do Drop to one knee It's not 1950, but there is something so charming and romantic about a man on one knee asking the love of his life to marry him. Even if you're not a traditional guy, it will add to the seriousness and lovingness of the proposal.
Do Tell Her Why You Want to Marry HerDon't just utter those 4 little words, tell her why she's the one for you, what marriage means to you, and what your hopes for the future are. Make her feel special and great about the relationship and the future ahead.
DON'Ts:
Don't Make it Public Please don't propose to her in a public place. Make it intimate and a personal thing. The moment belongs to you therefore this magical moment should be between just the two of you – after all, you've got the rest of your lives to tell other people about your marriage but you've only got one engagement moment.
Don't Propose on a holiday Consider picking a day meaningful to your relationship, such as the anniversary of your first date. Your girlfriend wants her day to shine – don't propose on a holiday that can't be yours as a couple.
Don't Hide the Engagement Ring in Food I hate to say it, (as I'm sure there are some readers who were planning to do just this) but hiding the engagement ring in food is a tired idea. It's been in a thousand movies and TV shows, and you won't win any points for creativity. Even worse, you may end your romantic proposal with a trip to the emergency room or the dentist.
Don't Do it in Front of Her Family Its one thing to take blessings of her parents but don't make the mistake of proposing in their presence. Proposals in front of family have an added level of stress that you don't need. Take this moment to be just the two of you; don't worry, you can call everyone immediately afterwards.
Don't Propose if you are not sure This is an important decision of your
life. Therefore first think whether you are ready for marriage and responsibility and then propose to her. Also get to know what she feels too.
Don't Expect Her to say Yes Immediately You're asking someone to spend the rest of their life with you – an extremely important decision. Just because you've asked, doesn't mean she is ready to say yes. If your sweetheart says maybe, take it in stride and give her some time to consider the proposal.
Ways to propose girl !
Are you thinking of popping the question to her today? Well you might be nervous but have you thought of a creative and romantic way to propose to her. If not then here are a few suggestions for you.
Do it the old fashioned way. Get down on one knee with a rose clenched in your teeth and the ring in your hand and ask her “Will you marry me?”
Write “will you marry me” in chalk on the street outside her house or flat in big enough letters so that she will notice it.
Phone up your local radio station and get them to pop the question for you over the air at a time that you know she will be listening. Then dedicate a song to her. Create a web page all about your life together. Upload photos of you together and at places that you went and that mean a lot to you. Announce your love by proposing, send the web address and wait for the reply.
Wrap a large box and fill with smaller boxes and keep the ring in the smallest box which will be the last box she opens. Or alternatively wrap a large box and fill with those tiny foam pieces and let her look for the small box inside.
Take her away for the weekend and when you are on your last day pop the question.
Take her to the place you first met or your favorite place and give her the ring wrapped in gift paper. Tell her that you have gotten her a gift to show how much you love her and when she opens it tell her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her.
Cook your loved one a romantic meal and place a note around a candle asking her to marry you.
Give your girlfriend a foot massage and place the ring on her little toe.
Buy her a watch and have it inscribed "marry me."
Serve her oysters in bed with the ring inside the shell.
Spell your proposal out in glow-in-the-dark star stickers on your ceiling. Climb on top of her and wait for the yes, yes, yes.
Leave a trail of notes for your partner to follow and when he/she reaches the end you will be standing there with the last note saying "Will you marry me?”.
Take your partner to the beach and write "Will you marry me?" in big letters in the sand.
Sneak in to her home and fill it to the rafters with flowers and in the middle sit a teddy bear holding the ring and a note asking her to marry you.
Send her 4 balloons with the words "Will you marry me?" written on them.
If you are brave enough get a tattoo done with "Will you marry me?" but only if you are sure that she is the right one and once she has accepted finish it off with the date of your engagement and marriage.
Or if you are the sensible, unromantic type, you could just try sitting down and having a chat about getting married and suggesting that it is about time the two of you did so.
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